Common Sense

Once upon a time children were taught many simple concepts about a variety of different things. many practices from cooking to cleanliness and social skills to basic etiquette. These were ideas that were, and to some extent still are considered common sense and common courtesy, neither of which are very common any more. I was not taught many of these things, and many others in my generation were not taught these basic concepts. Knowledge that was once quite simple to the majority or our society has been set aside for "more enlightened" philosophies. Nowadays there are so many ever changing philosophies that one can hardly keep up. Perhaps because of the "what is good for you is not always good for me" attitude that has become so prevalent. At least as Americans we seem to be self centered, not thinking of how what we do may affect those around us. It is our right after all to be happy, right? Even at the expense of the happiness of others? We deserve. It's our right. We are entitled. Since when?

People are rude and stupid. it's a wonder that other civilized nations tend to see us as evil. There is no respect, for those around us. Zero tolerance has come to mean zero respect for differences in beliefs and culture. It's all about me, so common courtesy is not allowed to play any more. I want to do things my way even if it does not turn out well, so common sense has no place here.

Common sense says that moderation in all things is the healthiest way to live. We are a country of extremes, pushing everything until it breaks. Then when things go wrong, we just sue some one, because it's not our fault, no on warned us. The coffee is hot, it could burn you. Over indulgence of food and little to not exercise can make you obese. My hair dryer electrocuted me when I was using it in the shower. I cut off my fingers using my push mower as a hedge trimmer.
Ridiculous. Common sense should not have to be legislated; people should take responsibility for their own stupidity.

Common courtesy says that placing others above yourself can get you further than placing yourself first. Let a car merge in front of you in traffic. Hold the door for the person or people behind you. Help that old lady with her bags at the store. Pick up the quarter that person dropped and give it back to them. It's not random acts of kindness, it's common courtesy, be a human.

The saying "what goes around comes around" is so true. Take responsibility for yourself and your actions. Our government should not have to set our standards for us. We call ourselves a civilized nation, yet we act like spoiled children. Wake up. What happened to common sense and common courtesy? Let's find them and practice then once more.